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Anti Cyber Bullying Essay

Cyber bullying has become a serious problem for young people and can cause long-term damage to victims and bullies. It is important to stop cyber bullying and get help for the people involved, but it can be hard to know how to stop cyber bullying. Parents and other concerned adults can work together with young people to prevent or stop cyber bullying.

In the last few years cyber bullying has received a lot of attention from the media, as well as from concerned adults and young people. Cyber bullying involves sending hurtful, threatening, or embarrassing messages to or about another person using email, blogs, cell phones, social networking sites, and other electronic media. These technologies are an important part of many people’s social and work lives, but to enjoy the positive benefits of electronic communication, it is necessary to prevent or stop cyber bullying.

Cyber bullying can be worse than other types of bullying because the bully may be anonymous or meaner than they would be in person, and the bullying can come at any time and in any place. Cyber bullying is related to short and long term problems for the victims and the bullies, such as depression, anxiety, poor school attendance and performance, and feeling fear and mistrust toward others. It is important to stop cyber bullying and get help for the victims and the perpetrators.

Though cyber bullying has become unfortunately common, there are some ways that kids, parents, and other concerned adults can help prevent or stop cyber bullying. Parents and other adults can:

  • Explain to kids what cyber bullying is, why it is wrong, and what will happen if the kids engage in cyber bullying, and enforce the consequences if the rules are broken. It can be difficult to accept if you find out your child has been a bully online, but by enforcing the rules it will help them develop better online behaviors.
  • Encourage kids to come to tell an adult if they ever see cyber bullying, either as a victim or a bystander, and help stop cyber bullying by never passing it on.
  • Help kids to be Internet safety savvy. They should know, especially, that they can’t trust that a person online is who they seem to be so they should only share personal information in person and that they shouldn’t share their passwords with anyone except their parents. They should also understand that anything they post online or send through a cell phone may resurface later, so they should not post or send pictures or messages they would not want everyone in the world to see, perhaps even years later.
  • Parents should have access to all of their kids’ accounts, and their kids should know that their parents may check occasionally to make sure their online activities are safe. It is also a good idea to keep computers in a busy area of the house, and out of bedrooms, and parents may also want to have a rule that cell phones must be turned off at certain times. like at night. Though kids do need some privacy, they should understand there is no guarantee of privacy online, and their parents have the responsibility to keep their kids safe.
  • Let kids know that no one deserves to be bullied, and if they are ever the victim reassure them that it is not their fault that they were bullied.

Kids who are the victims of cyberbullying, and their parents, may not know how to react. In some cases it depends on what has occurred, but these general suggestions may help:

  • Don’t punish kids for being the victim. This means parents should not take away their computer or cell phone privileges to “protect” them.
  • Encourage kids not to retaliate against cyber bullies. If they have already done so, encourage them not to do it again, but don’t make them feel like this caused the bullying.
  • When cyber bullying occurs, it is a good idea to document it, either by saving the message, printing it, or saving a screen shot. This provides proof to help stop cyber bullying.
  • When a child is the victim of cyber bullying, talk together with them about the next steps to take, and take the victim’s concerns seriously if they are afraid of the bully.
  • It may be possible to block messages from the cyber bully, or to get a new email address or cell phone number to stop the messages. In some cases, however, the cyber bully may find other ways to attack their victim.
  • In some cases, school administrators might be able to intervene in cyber bullying, or you may be able to contact the bully’s parents about the problem in writing, with a copy of the proof of the bullying and a request for it to stop. In other cases, parents may want to talk to the police or a lawyer about legal options.
  • Parents can contact the bully’s cell phone provider or the host of the bully’s email account or web site to report the cyber bullying. Cyber bullies can often lose their accounts, and possibly their families’ accounts as well, for cyber bullying. Even anonymous cyber bullies can sometimes be traced and stopped through their Internet service provider or cell phone provider.

Many forms of cyber bullying are against state and even federal bullying laws, and in these cases parents can contact the police for help. This is definitely an option to consider when the cyber bully’s attacks have been:

  • Threatening
  • Sexual in nature, including sending suggestive pictures or pictures taken in a private place like a bathroom
  • Extortion, demanding money or something else in return for the cyber bullying to stop
  • Possible hate crimes attacking a person’s ethnicity, gender, religion, or sexual orientation
  • Stalking or harassment

Both the victims and the perpetuators of cyber bullying may need counseling and other help to overcome the negative consequences and stop cyber bullying.

Sources:

National Crime Prevention Council, “What Parents Can Do About Cyber Bullying” [online]

SafetyWeb, “Stop Cyberbullying – Guide for Parents” [online]

Stop Bullying Now! “Cyberbullying” [online]

STOP Cyberbullying web site [online]

Bullying Helpbullying help, Stop Bullying, Stop Cyber Bullying

Author – Jeff White (Part 2 and 3 will be posted later by Yoko Rodriguez and Jordan Satterfield)

Cyberbullying – The Problem

With the invention of the Internet and its mass commercial use, some people might not have foreseen the issue of “cyberbullying” and how harmful it can really be. A non-profit organization called stopcyberbullying.org describes it as, “when a child, preteen or teen is tormented, threatened, harassed, humiliated, embarrassed or otherwise targeted by another child, preteen or teen using the Internet, interactive and digital technologies or mobile phones” (Wiredkids, 2011). Cyberbullying occurs among young people and when an adult is involved it’s commonly referred to as cyberstalking or cyberharassment. Researchers have been looking more into this realm ever since it started to grow rapidly. Cyberbullying occurs frequently towards a person, repeatedly causing abuse and hostility. This amount can add up and leave the teen at a loss of how to make it stop. Teenagers have gone to the lengths of committing suicide because the bullying was that bad like in Megan Meier’s case in 2006 in which she was cyberbullied over MySpace. It affects teenagers mostly because that’s a very fragile state in one’s life.

“Over half of adolescents and teens have been bullied online, and about the same number have engaged in cyber bullying” says bullyingstatistics.org. Cyberbullying can lead to anxiety, depression, and like previously stated, suicide. It also doesn’t help that since things circulate online a lot, the pain of cyberbullying can reoccur since nothing is ever truly taken down from the Internet. People who are bullying online think it’s funny. In some cases they want to hurt or harm the person they’re bullying, like in Megan Meier’s case. The cyber bullies think it’s ok for them to do this to people, when in reality its not. Cyber bullies think nothing will ever come of their actions, but in the past it has proven that things can result.

While the big problem being the teens that are doing the bullying, another issue we need to look at is the communication between the person being bullied and their parents/authority figures. It is said, “Well over half of young people do not tell their parents when cyber bullying occurs.” Teens are not feeling comfortable with telling their parents and thus never getting help with the issue and it continues to occur. In a situation that seems rather helpless, the people that can help the teens are their parents or authority figures. Teens sometimes feel like if they were to tell their parents about it, they’d lose their online privileges. Going along with teens not telling their parents, it was reported, “Fewer than 1 in 5 cyber bullying incidents are reported to law enforcement.” Cyberbullying is something that is going to happen no matter what and when looking at it as a problem you have to look at all angles to try and understand it. The Cyberbullying Research Center reported that, “About half of young people have experienced some form of cyber bullying, and 10 to 20 percent experience it regularly.”

Another big aspect of the problem of bullying is how accessible forms of electronic communications are to teens. “Over 80 percent of teens use a cell phone regularly, making it the most popular form of technology and a common medium for cyber bullying.” Since the fact that the use of cell phones by teen has risen so much, it’s easy to see how it has contributed to this problem. It makes it an easy medium for bulling to occur. In addition to that, with most households having a computer, it then creates more possibilities for it to occur. One of the last big aspects that contribute to this problem is the mere fact that it happens online or via cell phone. This way the person being bullied doesn’t know who it is and that allows the bully to be anonymous. This makes the bully feel like nothing will come of it because their identity is not known. It may even cause them to bully them more.

Cyberbullying is a huge problem in our society because it can cause harm to teens everywhere. It can lead to depression, anxiety or even suicide. Teens feel like they are untouchable sitting behind the computer because of their anonymity. Teens who are bullied feel helpless and they don’t like to tell their parents about what is happening.  It’s also a very tough thing to govern because not many kids are vocal about it and it’s tough for schools to get involved if the bullying didn’t occur in school. With technology ever changing, one might not doubt that Cyberbullying is an issue that will only get worse with time and actions need to be taken to help the issue.

References

Cyberbullying Research Cente. (2004). Bullying statistics. Retrieved from http://www.bullyingstatistics.org/content/cyber-bullying-statistics.html

WiredKids, I. (2011, October 20). Stop cyberbullying. Retrieved from http://www.stopcyberbullying.org/what_is_cyberbullying_exactly.html

 

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